I know you’re tired of coming home to an empty house, spending your weekends alone and going out to eat by yourself.
I’ve been where you are.
You try to stay hopeful and optimistic but that hope eventually turns into hopelessness when think about your last relationship and how he:
Turned away when you leaned over to kiss him
Sent you to voicemail when you called and didn’t return your texts for hours
Yelled at you for no reason
I know you’ve been through a lot and you may be losing hope but don’t give up on love yet.
A few years ago, I was almost ready to throw in the towel on love but then I learned that it was my father wound and abandonment issues that caused me to attract the wrong type of guys.
Take a moment and think about your own relationship with your Father.
You may also carry the father wound if your dad:
Wasn’t in your life growing up
Came in and out of your life
Was emotionally and or physically abusive to your family
Didn’t show you love and attention
Was present but emotionally distant
Cheated
Passed away
If any of these resonate, you will need to do a bit of healing work to clear your father wound (hurt, pain, void, emptiness created intentionally or unintentionally by your father)
It is very common for women with a father wound also known as “daddy issues” to attract unhealthy and unhappy relationships.
I’m here to tell you that if I can turn this around and attract a loving, happy, healthy relationship that has lasted 5 years, then you can do the same.
I have a quick 7 minute video that will help you with more clarity and insight around the Mother or Father Wound.
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Your Love Mentor,
Essence