Say goodbye to shame & trauma running your life and business and preventing you from being your most authentic self.
This is where...
Your soul comes alive!
You learn how to be your best friend!
You come home to yourself!
You authentically share your gifts and talents with the world!
When you heal and become one with yourself, your life & business gets better.
What once seemed bleak, is now beautiful.
The relationships that felt hard are now a breeze.
Your dream that has felt challenging or unattainable is now within reach and is flowing with ease.
The disconnect that you once felt in your relationship with money fades away and you become BFF's!
The lack of acceptance with yourself and your body has been released & you're now in love with all of you, even your perceived flaws.
You finally feel safe to share all of you with the world.
You might be here because the way you've been leading your life and business isn't working and sometimes you want to climb under the covers and never come out.
Instead of being energized by your life and business, you find yourself frustrated and drained.
Are you currently experiencing any of these in your life or business?
Do you often feel heavy, weighed down and have very little energy to put towards your dream?
Are you kinder and more compassionate to others than you are to yourself?
Are you hiding who you truly are in your life, or business because it doesn’t feel safe to be all of you?
Do you shame, guilt or beat yourself up when you don't meet goals or make mistakes?
Do you spend more time in your head thinking, analyzing, shaming than actually taking action and getting things done?
Do you have fear of being visible in your marketing or have trouble with showing up consistently?
Do you have fear around charging for your products/service or raising your prices?
Do you feel emotionally or mentally blocked because of past trauma? (abandonment, abuse, heartbreak, inner child or mother/father wounds etc…)
Do you sometimes have a knot in your throat in stops you from showing up and speaking your truth?
Do you have deep-seated beliefs such as not being good enough, unworthy, no one likes me, etc holding you back?
If you answered yes to one or more of these questions don't worry, you're in the right place!
Breaking through these blocks is my specialty and this is exactly what we’ll do in the Compassionate Feminine Leadership Academy.
We clear these blocks by focusing on 5 pillars in the program
1. Heal Shame & Trauma
2. Embrace Your Feminine Essence
3. Rebuild Your Relationship with yourself
4. Stop hiding & playing small
5. Show up authentically in your life & business.
We’ll dive deeper into these in a moment.
Compassionate Feminine Leadership
Traditional leadership is about influencing and inspiring others towards achieving goals.
When most people apply traditional leadership to their personal lives & business they tend to motivate and inspire themselves with an iron fist and use guilt, shame, criticism, and discipline to achieve goals.
My definition of Compassionate Feminine Leadership is,
Influencing and inspiring yourself to become your best self through kindness, self-love, emotional awareness, and using your intuition and feminine energy create the abundant life and business that you desire.
Compassionate Feminine Leadership is about living your best life, loving your business, and taking action towards your desires from a place of compassion & kindness and no longer from negative self-talk, shaming, or guilting yourself.
Who is the
Compassionate Feminine Leadership
It's for fempreneurs!
These are coaches, healers and service-driven entrepreneurs
who have a dream in their heart and are ready to heal, embrace their feminine essence, rebuild their relationship with themselves, stop hiding, and show up authentically in their life and business.
I experienced my MOST SUCCESSFUL MONTHS I’ve ever had while working with Essence.
The Compassionate Feminine Leadership Academy
Signature Level is a
5-month private transformational journey where we dive deep into the 5 pillars
1. Healing Shame & trauma
Many of us have been served up a cocktail of pain shame, trauma and heartbreak during this lifetime.
If you’re like me and my clients you may have experienced being abused, abandoned, violated, rejected, cheated on, lied to or some other form of trauma.
Trauma can be defined as a deeply distressing event. We’ve all had those, probably too many to count dating back to childhood.
Within each one of us is a hurt child, teenager and young adult.
Over time the weight of this pain can weigh you down as well as cause you to put up walls, wear masks and you end building your life and business from a place of fear and inauthenticity (being who you think others want you to be)
In this program, we are committed to deep transformational healing that is done swiftly, with lightness and ease.
Just because we may be dealing with deep stuff doesn’t mean it has to take forever, feel heavy and be hard.
2. Embracing Your Feminine Essence
Many of us were taught to hate, hide, doubt, distrust the very things that make us, us.
Being hurt and traumatized made us feel unworthy.
We hate our curves and in roundness.
We doubt our intuition.
We're ashamed of or don't trust our emotions.
We hide and suppress our voice and the things that make us unique.
Some women were taught to suppress their emotions, hate their bodies, to feel ashamed of their cycles and not to trust themselves. Others learned it subconsciously through societal messages.
Either way, we disconnected from the path of the sacred and empowered feminine and detoured on to the shadow path of the wounded feminine where you experience:
Guilt, shame, trauma, unworthiness, scarcity unhealthy emotions, ignoring your intuition, not speaking up, unable to receive goodness, love and abundance, playing small, shrinking and hiding.
It is time to get off of this unholy path release the pain, reclaim your worthiness and open up to God's grace and abundance.
3. Rebuilding your relationship with yourself
This is where you learn to forgive yourself, love yourself, I love yourself, except all of you and how to be kind to yourself.
When you’ve been hurt and disconnected from your feminine essence the next step for most people is to turn against themselves. (Hating yourself, guilting and shaming yourself tends to begin at a very young age.)
We feel the disconnect, we know we're not on our empowered path, we know that we've been hurt violated,
You end up blaming yourself even you didn't do anything wrong.
Loving yourself, accepting all of you and owning your magnificence is your birthright! Together we will restore and rebuild your relationship with yourself.
The truth is you are your own soulmate. This is the only intimate relationship you will have from your first breath until you're last so why not enjoy it?
(We will also heal any wounds around your relationship with your business and money so that you can make the impact that you're here to make.)
4. Stop hiding
This is where you take the mask off and stop hiding who you truly are. You stop literally hiding, shrinking, silencing your expression, and backing down in your personal life, and business.
Experiencing trauma and and disconnecting from your feminine essence usually leads you to believe two lies.
1. There’s something wrong with me
2. I’m not enough
If this is how you truly feel deep down of course you're not going to put yourself out there to be seen and heard in a big way.
That literally feels unsafe and dangerous. When you’ve been hurt & shamed you want safety more than anything.
Therefore if standing up and speaking out equals danger then of course hiding and playing small would equal safety.
Together we will heal the wounds of there's something wrong with me and I'm not enough and any other limiting beliefs that cause you to hide.
We will also reprogram your mind and nervous system so that it actually feels safe to speak out, stand up, set boundaries and be visible in your life and business.
5. Show up authentically in your life and business.
Now that you've healed the pain, embraced your empowered feminine essence, fell in love with yourself and stopped hiding it's time to be all of you everywhere you go.
This happens by up-leveling your self-confidence and belief in yourself.
We're peeling back the layers and getting to the core of who you are truly meant to be in this world.
The confident version of you who deeply believes in herself is out there waiting on you to align with her.
She knows that you have work to do and lives to change. The longer you wait, the longer it takes for your people to be transformed by you and the magic that you're here to offer the world.
Throughout our 5 months together we'll weave in out of this framework.
This is not a masculine rigid structure it's a feminine fluid process based on your specific needs & desires.
Signature 5-month Program Overview
75-Minute Kick-Off Connect & Commit Ceremony, this is where you'll release the old identity, step into a new one and really commit to doing this work for yourself.
Weekly Energy Healing & Coaching Calls, to heal, build confidence, embrace your feminine essence and set accountability goals for you to show up authentically as you.
Unlimited Coaching via Email & Voxer message support, I'm here to support in between sessions so that I can answer any questions and provide guidance.
Access to my healing library, here you'll find video guidance, worksheets, energy and energy healing audios to support you on your healing journey.
Additional Program Options
In addition to the signature 5-month program, I've created 2 other options for your varying needs.
Think you might need longer than 5 months?
The Extended Journey is 7 months and it's for those who have deep trauma, multiple traumas, shame, or emotional wounds to heal.
We will follow the same framework as the five-month program but this gives us more time and spaciousness to go deep and give the most traumatic events the attention they deserve.
Not looking for long-term coaching?
The Short Journey is 4 weeks and it's for the woman who isn't looking for long-term help and has an idea of what's in the way right now and wants some assistance in releasing that block.
On our call, we'll determine which program fits your needs.
Programs range from $997-$8,000
After years of working with several clients, I've noticed that when we clear limiting beliefs, release past trauma, heal their relationship with themselves and lead from compassion, magical things begin to happen.
Their intuition kicks in and they began taking soul-led action.
They have loads of energy to get things done
Clients start reaching out to them
They lead their clients, team, business and family with more compassion, empathy and understanding
They begin doing things that scare them
Their relationships improve and become more intimate
Their relationship with money improves and money flows easier
They meet themselves with love and compassion if they make a mistake or hit an obstacle
They become courageous and visible and show up like never before
They start to love and enjoy the lives they already have while creating more
They make themselves a priority and make more time for self-care
They release traumas they thought they’d live with forever
This and more is available to you when you join the Compassionate Feminine Leadership Academy
The next step is to book a Soul Connection Call.
1. Begin with connecting to your heart & soul to make sure that I’m the right guide and this is the best program for where you are right now in your life.
2. Once you’re solid this is a good fit for you, book your Soul Connection Call.
3. On this call we’ll make sure the program is a match for your exact needs.
4. On the call we’ll also make sure we’re a soul-aligned match since we’ll be spending months working together.
5. If the program is a great fit and we vibe we’ll get you enrolled. If it’s not a good fit that’s ok too and you’ll walk away feeling supported and heard.
Hi, I'm Essence
I’m on a mission to help you to compassionately become your best self, while helping you elevate your life, love and business all while achieving goals and creating magic along the way.
I know this journey all too well, for years I lived the same depressing life over and over. I couldn't figure out how to get myself out of the loop that I was in. I would try to motivate myself by shaming myself, calling myself names, and comparing where I was to others.
It felt like I was stuck in the mud, with wheels spinning but no forward movement and that made me hate myself and my life even more.
Searching for answers I set out on a self-love & spiritual journey and I realized that I had father wounds and abandonment issues. This deeply impacted the way that I saw myself, what I felt I was worth and what I thought I could have and achieve.
Essentially, there was a part of me that was ready for change and elevation but there was a deeper part of me that I was unaware of, that didn't feel worthy. This inner conflict felt like the great battle of good and evil.
In 2014 I hired a coach, began taking classes and just went all in healing, learning to love myself, be kind and compassionate to myself.
From that place, I began to take action, do things that scared me and that's when my life began to change.
I knew that I wanted to share this healing work with other women so I became a Certified Radical Forgiveness Coach, Certified Reiki Practitioner, Money Archetype & Abundance Coach, EFT Practitioner, and Certified Shamanic Healer.
Now I have the honor of living my purpose as a healer, self-leadership guide and spiritual life coach to wonderful women just like you.
Here's what they're saying!!
8 months ago I had hit a pretty solid rock bottom emotionally and mentally.
I felt stuck in a state of melancholy, sadness and no momentum to continue to pursue my Coaching career, my active lifestyle or my love life. I spent months laying about, watching endless tv and eating way to many Doritos. Being a Health and Life Coach, this was NOT the way I wanted to be.
Connecting with Essence and having her as my Coach was the best investment in myself that I have made to date. From the very first session Essence listened to me in a way I have not been heard before.
What I got out of our work together is nothing short of transformational. I went from stuck to ON FIRE!! I went from no momentum to CONSISTENT action in not only my coaching business, where I was averaging a new client every two weeks, but also taking action in a new solid way in my love life.
Stephanie P, Certified Health Coach
Working with Essence was the best thing that I could have ever done for myself.
Just being in her energy and her presence was healing, but then she does some serious magic with her coaching and energy tools.
With Essence’s help, I was finally able to start healing my relationship with myself and my past. This was something that I never thought was possible.
Shaina D, Holistic Mindset Coach
I was not even close to understanding what true healing was until I reached out to Essence Turner. When I first connected with Essence I was nervous and I didn't know what to expect. After our first conversation, I felt safe and supported. She was dedicated from day one during my healing journey. She wanted me to WIN and I love that about her. Her compassion and gentle manner compliment her powerful wisdom.
Stacy G, Massage Therapist
Have you ever known that you needed something but couldn't quite put your finger on it? But even if you had, you wouldn't know who you should ask for help. This was my experience right before I met Essence. I knew something had been lurking in my life that felt like a blocker but I couldn't figure out how to reach that elevation. Essence has not only gotten me there but she's taken me higher.
I felt safe immediately with Essence and we were able to go to a deep trauma I was still holding within me. Our healing session and her guidance helped transform this pain and ‘stuckness’ like nothing ever had. I trusted her with my most tender and vulnerable part of myself and in return was able to access a profound healing experience.
Is this a group or private program?This is a private coaching & healing program that includes an online classroom component.
What is the time commitmentOptional pre-recorded Content varies in length. Private 1:1 calls 50 minutes. *Occasionally calls will go over into the 75-90 minute range therefore a subsequent call may be 45 minutes. ~Soulwork (homework) based on the call 30 min-1 hour a week
What if I don't watch the videos or do the homework?Most often we will proceed with the scheduled private call. If this continues we will explore any blocks that are keeping from fully showing up.
What experience is need to join the program?All are welcome no matter where you are on your spiritual journey. I will be there to guide you.
What is a Goddess?Goddess with a capital G defined as female Gods, also refers to the mother/female aspect of creation. Everyday modern Goddess-( you and me) A woman who is connected to her inner wise woman and intuition. She's committed to living as her true authentic self, being a bright light in this world, she loves & accepts herself, she's a work in progress, cares for herself and body temple.
What are the payment plans and refund options?A full payment will include a bonus savings Monthly payments via Paypal recurring auto debit Bi-weekly payments also available via Paypal recurring auto debit Refunds: No refunds to ensure that clients are fully committed to the program and coaching.
What kind of people have you helped?I have successfully helped women with abandonment issues, severe physical & emotional abuse, sexual abuse, inner child healing, mother & father wounds, break-ups, divorce, and death of loved ones. I'm not a therapist. As a certified Radical Forgiveness Coach and Shamanic Practitioner I guide my clients through the use of certain tools that heal them on an emotional, energetic and spiritual level. The spiritual, energetic, and emotional levels are where the inner wounds first form and need the most attention and that doesn't always happen in a clinical setting.
What makes this program special?This program is geared toward wholeness, self-love, energy healing and raising your vibration. This isn't about stuffing your mind full of information. It's about doing the deep work required to remove the layers of pain, hurt, trauma and false beliefs that are preventing you from living as beautiful happy peaceful woman you are here to be.
Is your soul ready to shine and lead your life & biz from compassion But your brain is saying "this won’t work for me?"
Check this testimonial after only 8 weeks
"When I first started working with Essence, I felt lost and very alone. I knew I had a lot of unprocessed trauma to work through, but I had no idea how to go about doing that. I had tried for a few months to find my way on my own, but all I felt was loneliness and despair.
With every session so far, she has helped me learn to trust myself and allow ALL the emotions to come up without being afraid or ashamed of whatever I was feeling. Our work together has been nothing short of liberating for me.
I've had 3 people reach out about coaching with me and I signed a client.
I've started embracing my own personal style and feeling like FIRE in my own skin every day.
Raquel B, Life Coach
If you're deep in it and you're feeling really stuck as if there's no hope for change I want to remind you that it's always darkest before the dawn.
I have seen so many women come in hopeless and fearful and leave as a brand new version of themselves, 10 times different than when they came.
Your mind may be saying it's not possible for you, but I'm here to tell you if healing and leading life from the inside out has worked for women of all different ages, races and backgrounds I can assure you that it's possible for you too.
Take a leap!
Take a chance on yourself, you’re worth it!
I guarantee you won’t be sorry!